I am concerned about the physical side of my relationship with my female partner. It boils down to the fact that she does not turn me on simply because she has almost non-existent breasts. I do respond to breasts; they turn me on. Should my otherwise happy relationship flounder simply because of two lumps on a woman's body or can I find a way of dealing with this apart from finding a new partner? I feel that at my age I should be able to be more grown up about this but don't know how to be.

They are things of beauty, but they don't just some in a single size. Many guys get fixated on bigger chests, and that's fine. However, not every girl has 36F breasts, and they aren't a turn-on for every guy either.

When we gave you 5 breast-focused positions just a few weeks ago, some of you didn't feel invited to the party. You were! As Mandy put it on the Cosmo Facebook page.