Mutual masturbation actually has two definitions: masturbating yourselves together or having hand sex with one another. It can make you feel an exciting — and kind of terrifying — mix of vulnerable and powerful at the same time. As for them, being privy to the peep show and watching you pleasure yourself kicks up the naughty factor by a bazillion. Masturbation is pretty much the safest sex you can have, but when doing it with a partner — virtually or IRL — there are some risks to consider. First, be aware of bodily fluids. If either of you decides to reach over for a feel — with consent! Trust is a must , especially in this day and age of virtual everything, where just a click lets a person sneak a screenshot or record a video and share it with others.

It's the hottest, most intimate thing you can do with your partner—without actually touching each other. The first time you fart in front of each other. The first time you use the same toothbrush experts say that's a no-no, btw.

But initiating the act is often easier said than done. After all, masturbation is usually something we do alone without anyone watching. The performance pressure, as well as the question of how to incorporate your partner, can be major pleasure-killers. Another plus? So, here are a few tips for getting over that initial awkwardness and having an amazing mutual masturbation session.