In my last article, I talked about putting in your practice to get good with girls. Let's take a break from all this practice, and grinding, and gradual improvement. What if you just want to hook up with a girl One of the things we discussed last article was going out in 'make it happen mode', and how if you know what you're doing you can actually pull this off.

Self-confidence is extremely sexy to a woman. In fact, I'd go so far as to say that, more than a man's good looks and more than his gentlemanly manner, confidence is the trigger trait that makes a woman want to get naked. He slips her through the back door, tipping heavies the whole way, chatting up other wiseguys, and finally ending up at a table in front of the stage. Liotta had something much more important than a roll of Franklins: He had confidence. And its effect on Bracco was clear.

I first stepped into the bar scene with the specific intent of picking up a girl in September With a vodka lime in hand, I looked around at all the sexy ladies, savouring the social dynamics of the bar and the determination in my groin to take a woman home that night. It would be the beginning of one of the most significant journeys of my life, almost on par with my struggle to quit pornography. Mostly sex.